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As we saw in this post
, every bowls club faces different challenges as membership changes and grows. Some are easy to solve, and some more difficult, but it’s always good to spend time to look at the various areas of your club and see if they can be improved.
The Challenge
At our club, having run a few really successful Open Weekends over the past few years, we’ve been fortunate to welcome a wave of new lady members in their 50s and early 60s. Many are still working and keen to get involved, but like all new players, they sometimes lack the confidence to step into matches or competitions straight away.
At the same time, our more experienced ladies – who have given so much to the club over the years – have adjusted their playing times. With many preferring not to drive in the dark during winter, league matches have been moved to lunchtime sessions. This works well for them, but it does mean our newer working-age members can’t always take part or benefit from playing alongside them.
The result? Our newer lady bowlers weren’t mixing as much with the established players, and this left them feeling uncertain about whether they were “ready” to take part in bigger club events such as club knockout tournaments or games against other clubs.
A Summer Solution
Rather than let this become a barrier, I decided to step in and help bridge the gap. Over the summer, I gave up my Sunday mornings to run relaxed sessions with our newer lady bowlers. The aim wasn’t just about technique – it was about confidence.
- Shot selection: helping them think about the right option at the right time.
- Tips & guidance: sharing little nuggets of experience that make the game easier.
- Encouragement: reminding them that they can compete at the same level as others.
- Team spirit: creating a group who support one another and grow together.
I wasn’t alone in this – I was very grateful for the support of Kath and Ruth, who helped get this group together and made sure the sessions ran smoothly.
Thank you Paul for giving up your time and for all your encouragement, support, valuable tips and advice.
Lynn
I have thoroughly enjoyed our Sunday morning sessions and have learnt so much reading the head, trying out different shots, gaining confidence in my bowling and all in a fun and friendly environment with a lovely bunch of ladies.
Thanks too to Kath, Ruth and Elise for getting us all together Xxx
The Benefits
The impact has been really positive. Our newer lady bowlers now feel:
- More confident in their abilities.
- Better prepared to step into club matches when needed.
- Part of a growing, supportive group of players who encourage each other.
Most importantly, these sessions helped build a bridge between the different groups in our club. It’s not about “younger” versus “older” members – it’s about creating opportunities for everyone to learn, grow, and enjoy bowls together.
Ah Paul, thank you so much – you’ve made such a difference. I’m definitely feeling the benefit from your help, all the tips you have passed on and feel like l can try new things, not that they always work but that’s just me. It’s fun being with all the girls on a Sunday morning and thanks to Ruth, Kath and Elise for your help too xx
Teri
Moving Forward
This experience has shown me how important it is for clubs to look at their membership and spot where players might be missing out. Sometimes, just a little extra support can make all the difference in helping people feel included and confident.
Our established lady members remain a vital part of the club, with huge experience to share. But by supporting the newer generation, we’re making sure the club continues to be strong, welcoming, and full of opportunity for everyone.
Thank you Paul for setting up these Sunday morning sessions along with Ruth, Kath, Elise and giving up your time. I was very nervous coming to the first one and was on verge of giving up bowls as I was not progressing. With all the encouragement and advice and tips – I feel much more confident and have a better understanding of bowls. Everyone was so encouraging and such a friendly and fun group of ladies.
Linda
If your club has a similar challenge, why not consider creating confidence-building sessions too?